I'm my experience, this is how I handle it. 

1. Listen carefully to their concerns. 
2. Thank the parent for taking an interest in their child s education (in my experience this disarms/de-escalates the situation)
3. Respond with the reasonable advice you have received from your colleges. These books are age appropriate and it's the right of the students in the school to have access to that content. The parent should have the discussion with their child regarding reading expectations and family values moving forward.
4. Hold your ground and remember the students are counting on you.

My 3 cents. : ) Good luck.

Mr. V

Thomas Vaghini
 
Library Media Specialist
Stafford High School
145 Orcuttville Road
Stafford Springs, CT 06076
860.684.4233 x3032



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On Thu, May 14, 2015 at 9:26 AM, KRISTINE P. EMOND <emond.kp@easthartford.org> wrote:

Hi everyone,

 

Seeking advice.  This morning a parent of a one of my frequent library users/big reader's dad apparently brought into the main office all the books his daughter has taken out here and says he no longer wants her reading these books.  Two were Gayle Foreman's and two were Elizabeth Scott's YA romance.  In my eyes, these are your typical teen romance/love stories and fairly tame reading considering what's out there.  The secretary field his argument and request and told him to reach out to his daughter's assistant principal.  I would like to get my feet on the ground with this because I am not interested in policing my 1800 students' book choices and I'm not setting a precedent.  Thanks!!

 

 

 

Kristine Emond
Library/Media Specialist
East Hartford High School
East Hartford, CT 06118
860-622-5258
 
"You can be too rich and too thin, but you can never be too well read or too curious about the world." - Tim Gunn

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